Libido, Sexual Wellness

From Shy and Reserved to Fearless and Passionate: The Ultimate Guide to Tap into Your Inner Sex Goddess

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Are you ready to unleash your inner sex goddess? Let’s face it, we all have the potential to be a confident, fierce, and sexy being, but that potential is often suppressed by societal factors, our own insecurities, and a lack of knowing how to tap into that energy. In this month’s article we share six steps to helping you connect with your inner sex goddess and release the natural passion and desire deep inside. Trust us, it’s worth the journey!

1. Breathing Life into Desire

Let’s start at the very core of our being: our breath. Breathwork and meditation aren’t only powerful tools for relaxation; they’re pathways to igniting the embers of desire within. By tuning into your breath, you tune into your body’s natural rhythm, inviting a sense of presence that enhances every touch, every sensation. Close your eyes, inhale deeply, exhale fully, and feel the surge of energy awakening within you.

2. Self-Discovery to Unveil Hidden Desires

Self-pleasure, like any art, can be a sensual and meditative experience. Through it, we can uncover our desires, embrace our bodies and curves, and reconnect with our inner goddess. In this journey of discovery, we not only explore our bodies but also our emotions, needs, and desires. By allowing yourself to step into the role of artist and masterpiece simultaneously, you reveal the radiant sexual goddess within, one that knows herself and is filled with self-love and sensuality.

3. Vitality and The Irresistible Aura of Self-Assuredness

Confidence is the key that unlocks the doors to sensual exploration. When you exude confidence, you radiate an irresistible allure that draws others in. Physical vitality, be it through nourishing foods or invigorating movement, fuels your body with the energy it craves. Remember that when exercising, your body becomes more responsive, enhancing your confidence and sensuality. So, embrace your physicality, move with intention, and revel in the undeniable feel-good sensation of endorphins coursing through your veins.

4. Self-Love is The Foundation of Intimacy

To fully embrace your inner goddess, you must first love and accept yourself. Self-love is the foundation upon which intimacy blossoms. This means banishing self-criticism and accepting, if not celebrating, your flaws and unique quirks. These traits are part of what make you beautiful, so embrace them as the unique brushstrokes that paint your masterpiece. With self-compassion and self-love, you will be better equipped to connect with others intimately. To become intimate with a partner, you must first become intimate with yourself, and self-love lays the foundation for that path.

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5. Joyful Self-Care

Picture this: a woman who radiates joy, a smile that dances in her eyes. Joy is the elixir of life, and it fuels your inner sexual goddess like nothing else. Engage in activities that light up your soul, whether it’s dancing, painting, or simply basking in the sunshine. And self-care, dear goddess, is non-negotiable. Nourish your body, pamper your senses, and create a sanctuary where you can retreat to recharge and rejuvenate.

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6. An Invitation to Intimacy

As a goddess, you know that intimacy isn’t just skin-to-skin; it’s heart-to-heart, and soul-to-soul. Your passion for intimacy comes from a place of sensuality and inviting others to connect in more than just a sexual sense. Communication, vulnerability, and a willingness to explore create the foundation for intimate connections. When you let yourself be seen and celebrated for the goddess that you are, you open the door to a dance of connection that goes beyond the physical. Allow your sensual self to guide you on this journey and celebrate the intimate moments on your way.


As we journey through the layers of breathwork, meditation, self-pleasure, confidence, physical health, self-acceptance, joy, and self-care, remember that you’re painting a sensual artwork that’s uniquely yours. Celebrate each of these aspects that come together to create the sexual goddess you are becoming.

Join Confidential Collection this September, in letting your intimate exploration be a celebration of your divine feminine essence. As you delve into your desires, connect with your body, and radiate confidence, you’ll find that your inner sexual goddess isn’t a distant fantasy; she’s alive and thriving within you. May this month be filled with passion, self-discovery, and a touch of that enchanting, pure goddess magic.

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